gf wants to temporary break up while I go out of state..

[MO3iusONE]

Alright so heres the situation, I'm going back to cali for about a week to visit family, I haven't been in cali in months so its going to be good to see some old friends. Shes saying how she wants to split up while I'm gone, you know in case I might I dunno, bang some of my ex's. Now theres that possibility but I've been dating this girl for roughly two weeks and shes a sweetheart so the last thing I want to do is ruin a good thing. I'm trying to talk her out of temporary breaking up.. whats the point? I mean we're going out and for me to go out of state for a bit, tests my ability to be faithful. I think her wanting to split for while I'm gone gives me the ability to bang some other chick sine me and her wouldn't be dating for the time, and vice versa ... bah!

[chimphappyhour]

She wants to break up because you'll be gone one week!? Whoa! Something is definitely not right there.

My wife goes out of the country to visit family every other year for months on end and we don't divorce while she's gone. But........ :D

[MO3iusONE]

I just got off the phone with her, she says that we're not gona split up and that she hopes she doesn't regret it. I guess shes just worried that I might do something stupid and she feels that if me and her aren't dating, that it wont be that big of a deal...

[WorldIRC]

^So don't be an idiot and stay faithful.

[sabesh]

Maybe itz just me .. But that's too much drama. I'd ditch her, as you never know how she'd behave in other possibly doubt/jealousy-inducing scenarios.

[Notorious0601]

Maybe itz just me .. But that's too much drama. I'd ditch her, as you never know how she'd behave in other possibly doubt/jealousy-inducing scenarios.

My thoughts exactly.

[Hans Moleman]

I don't see a reason why you and her should break up, and it could always turn permanent break up. But as long as you're not planning on screwing anyone, and she isn't either, then it should be all good

Me and my girlfriend have only been dating for a month or so, or less and I'm leaving for 3 months at the end of the week... and I just feel like things will go sour, especially since I haven't seen her since 2 weeks ago.

[Himself™]

Maybe itz just me .. But that's too much drama. I'd ditch her, as you never know how she'd behave in other possibly doubt/jealousy-inducing scenarios.

Yup, plus the first thing that came to my mind is she wants to get some on the side too while you are gone.
Whole thing just seems silly regardless.

[EPVQ30]

don't dance to her tune.
you are the fiddler, remember that.
make slowfo proud.

[Katya]

Maybe itz just me .. But that's too much drama. I'd ditch her, as you never know how she'd behave in other possibly doubt/jealousy-inducing scenarios.

True dat.

[NxJ]

Rodger that, we have a CODE RED!!

Sounds like she has jealousy problems.

[icecubesyum]

This is all bad. Even if you did break up for the week that you're gone she'd still want to know if you fucked another girl.

[Katya]

Why would she even date you if she didn't think you could keep it in your pants for a week?

[NxJ]

I think my girl wonders that too katya...

[Katya]

My gender is stupid. I know this.

[icecubesyum]

Katya, I know you're in a relationship, and so am I. But I think you're such a lovely girl! Whoever has you better know he has a winner!

[Katya]

Katya, I know you're in a relationship, and so am I. But I think you're such a lovely girl! Whoever has you better know he has a winner!

I hope he knows it.

This he my 69th post. Hehehe.

[mick4394]

How do you guys know that this chick doesn't want a break because she's looking to get piece of tail while he's gone?

[MO3iusONE]

Well she said that shes been in a situation where she went back home and she ended up getting back with one of her ex's. Now keep in mind that she was single at the time but still, I guess she thinks that once I go back home girls will be over me and I"ll have to pry em off me or something..I'll be alright..

[Pepsi Man]

I wouldn't fall for the whole break up for a week thing. I would just ditch her and get someone more stable.

[mick4394]

I wouldn't fall for the whole break up for a week thing. I would just ditch her and get someone more stable.

No kidding. The chick sounds like a flake.

[amkls704]

Yup, plus the first thing that came to my mind is she wants to get some on the side too while you are gone.
Whole thing just seems silly regardless.

I'm going to agree.

If a girl is telling you she is worried you are going to cheat after two weeks, RUN!!!!

If you can't trust someone, the relationship falls apart before it can even start.

Trust someone until they give you a reason not to. The whole "I don't want to get hurt" thing is dumb. Everyone gets hurt. If you haven't given her a reason not to trust you, she has no reason to be like that.

Just imagine how she's going to be after a year.

Just my advice, but I'd run with my tail between my legs.

I have went out of town several times, and even considered doing an internship overseas, and my girlfriend has NEVER questioned my motives. I still talk to half my ex'es and hang out with them, she doesn't care, because I have given her absolutely no reason not to trust me.

[eimajuno]

Well she said that shes been in a situation where she went back home and she ended up getting back with one of her ex's. Now keep in mind that she was single at the time but still, I guess she thinks that once I go back home girls will be over me and I"ll have to pry em off me or something..I'll be alright..

So because she did this she automatically thinks that you would do the same thing? This does not make any sense. She sounds like she might turn into quite a piece of work as time passes. I would say Dump That Bitch and move on.

[sabesh]

My gender is stupid. I know this.

Yer killin' me :D

[MO3iusONE]

Thanks once again guys. We're good now. Shes going to Mexico for Memorial day weekend and I'm going to cali. She called her cell phone compnay so she can make calls while in Mexico.. it shows that she cares :-)

[Meet Lucas]

Thanks once again guys. We're good now. Shes going to Mexico for Memorial day weekend and I'm going to cali. She called her cell phone compnay so she can make calls while in Mexico.. it shows that she cares :-)

No, she's trying to make sure she can call her other boyfriend while in Mexico.

[MO3iusONE]

No, she's trying to make sure she can call her other boyfriend while in Mexico.

hah probably.

[BigIke]

You not in the Haystack anymore?

where you move to?