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Hans Moleman
05-02-2008, 10:47 PM
How do you flirt or make a move when you meet a girl?

Meeting girls at my university is terrible.. they consist of 60% of the population but they're stuck up, but many times I meet the girls at socials and whatever, if I get the vibe that they're bored or wanting someone to talk to.. usually the head against the palm of the hand is a dead give away, but then I do walk up to the girl and I realize why she's sitting there on her own... cuz she's a bitch! I try to make conversation with the girl and she basically gives me a disgusted look as if she's too good for anyone.

But I don't know how I flirt or make a move, usually if I get a vibe from a girl, I'll slowly flirt or whatever, like warming up, like I'll give the girl a hug first, and if I can tell she liked it, move slowly from there, compliment her, etc.. and it usually works up to kissing by the end.

How do you flirt or make a move with someone new?

Notorious0601
05-03-2008, 01:04 PM
I let them know my interest and let them make their move. Who said it always has to be us guys making moves?

Hans Moleman
05-03-2008, 04:33 PM
I let them know my interest and let them make their move. Who said it always has to be us guys making moves?

Where I live, the girls expect the guys to make the move, it's still backwards here, however my girlfriend was the one who asked me out and all that dealio

EPVQ30
05-06-2008, 08:52 AM
i comment on how beautiful their eyes are.
they love that shit.

if it's at a bar, i ask them what they think about some random chick at the bar i am planning on hitting on.
if they tell me a valid answer, i offer them a drink.

but i don't do that anymore.

NxJ
05-06-2008, 10:15 AM
Damn EPV, thats close to what i do.

teddy
05-09-2008, 04:49 PM
It's really easy. If you want a girlfriend or relationship, be a nice guy. If you want to just have casual sex, date multiple partners, and live a party lifestyle, be a jerk!

Notorious0601
05-09-2008, 09:10 PM
DON'T be a nice guy unless you like being stuck in the friendzone. Be an ass, and remember, nice guys finish last.

Nice guys finish last...thank God I'm an asshole!

CNFD
05-12-2008, 10:23 PM
It's really easy. If you want a girlfriend or relationship, be a nice guy. If you want to just have casual sex, date multiple partners, and live a party lifestyle, be a jerk!

Very true. Some chick I was trying to get with ended up being a total bust when we became "best friends" in her eyes. On the other hand, I wasn't a total douche, but deff wouldn't treat a gf like that, and ended up fucking her 2 weeks later. Girls want to be treated like shit.

Meet Lucas
05-13-2008, 08:41 AM
I let them know my interest and let them make their move. Who said it always has to be us guys making moves?

They want someone that is confident. If you're not confident enough to ask, they don't want you.

Notorious0601
05-14-2008, 12:58 AM
They want someone that is confident. If you're not confident enough to ask, they don't want you.

I for one am fucking tired of the fact they expect us to ask them out. I dig a woman who isn't afraid to make a fucking move on me. Reversing the roles and being the pursued feels good too, y'know.