A 19 year old noob in need to find a GF, where to go to find people?

[hiep]

Hi,

I am a 19 year old noob guy and want to find a girl to get into a bf/gf situation ... where is the best place to go to find one in the gta?

what is the best thing to say to a girl when starting a conversation?

thanks

[Paolo]

tell her your not looking to find Mrs. Right, but instead, your looking to find Mrs. "Right NOW!"

[riel]

To be honest, they're everywhere. Doesn't matter if you're going out for some food, shopping, or whatever.

For a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship, I would stay away from bars and clubs. People usually don't go there for that serious stuff, only for fun.

[WorldIRC]

19, its too late! Find a man.

[crocket]

19, its too late! Find a man.
Is that what you did World! :lol:

[WorldIRC]

Nope it isnt you smelly Crotch!

[crocket]

Nope it isnt you smelly Crotch!
So what's his name then? :lol:

[Himself™]

what is the best thing to say to a girl when starting a conversation?

thanks

You can try saying "Yo Baby Yo Baby Yoooooo" while making karate chop motions with your hands. I've seen this work before, the girl thinks you are a hip hop ninja and this tends to turn them on. Sporting a little bling will help this maneuver.

[crocket]

You can try saying "Yo Baby Yo Baby Yoooooo" while making karate chop motions with your hands. I've seen this work before, the girl thinks you are a hip hop ninja and this tends to turn them on. Sporting a little bling will help this maneuver.That will get him a boatload of women! :rolleyes: :lol:

[WorldIRC]

or a woman the size of a boat ;)

[crocket]

or a woman the size of a boat ;)That reminds me you haven't shown me a picture of your girlfriend yet!

[Himself™]

That reminds me you haven't shown me a picture of your girlfriend yet!

Ziiing! :hehehe:

[riel]

This forum offers no serious help does it?

[crocket]

I would love to give you some dating tips but I haven't dated in over 25 years! :)

[tntsniper]

Hi,

I am a 19 year old noob guy and want to find a girl to get into a bf/gf situation ... where is the best place to go to find one in the gta?

what is the best thing to say to a girl when starting a conversation?

thanks


Well your old enough to goto bars in canada.. go bar hopping w/ a bunch of friends, get a couple drinks in ya and boom you'll be able to go up and ask ne girl for their number or to dance....

Although I've found out meeting girls at bars always end up in "bar sluts!".. your best move is to try at a university or something. I met my g/f at my university and its nice to know that she isn't a bar slut :D

[WorldIRC]

go visit University of Michigan. Many desperate women there :)

[crocket]

go visit University of Michigan. Many desperate women there :)That's how you found your girlfriend wasn't it! :lol:

[sabesh]

Actually Bryn Mawr college near Philly is great for meeting women. Just be aware that a sizeable portion of then are lesbians (all women's U) :devil:

[chexmex]

You're worrying about it too much.

But this is a great thread for Crotch Pwning WorldIRC haha.

[hiep]

Thanks for your help guys/girls. I kinda got my balls together and went up to a girl at school I find who I pretty looking, smart and who isn't those girls who date guys for their money and cars ..... gonna go out tomorrow night with her to a restaurant.

First time going on a real date. Any tips for a noob like me so I don't mess up? I know I should not be myself and act more mature, and dress professionally for a date. and tips i should be looking out for and avoid?

thanks

[Notorious0601]

Sorry, couldn't resist. :lol:

http://www.fivefourteen.net/motivational-posters/girlfriends.jpg

[The Mac Ace]

haha i know lots of dating sites... just none suitable for finding a (straight) girl!
but they DO work! I've met many many people off of them that i really did have a great time with :D

[CNFD]

First off stop saying shit like noob. Just have a few bruskies and at all possible, do not, i repeat DO NOT talk about video games, slowfo/hofo, stat trek or any shit like that. If she brings it up, then go with it. But keep the conversation to stuff like favorite movies, family, music, hobbies etc. And for hobbies, don't bring up internet porn, collecting action figures etc. Also, don't make it seem like your too interested with her. When the dates over, no matter how good it went, just a friendly hug will suffice. Next day, kiss on the cheek or simple peck. On the third date you should be ready to finger bang. Fourth date you should be asking her if she prefers ribbed or flavored rubbers.

[Notorious0601]

...unless, like me, you happen to be allergic to latex.

[The Mac Ace]

haha my BF loves hofo and other bulletin boards. its pimp. hes also a gamer :D

[CNFD]

That's pretty chill. I wish I could find a girl that actually knows how to do more than place a call besides text and still be good looking.

[The Mac Ace]

That's pretty chill. I wish I could find a girl that actually knows how to do more than place a call besides text and still be good looking.

my boy uses his voyager for evvvverything :D

[ilanm]

dude, main thing is just relax. it sounds cliche and all but chicks dig a guy who is at ease with himself.
let nature follow.
and dont forget -
Dont be a fool, wrap that tool

[Notorious0601]

Dont be a fool, wrap that tool

:lol: Consider that line stolen.

[ilanm]

hahaha its a goodie.
Oh, and one more thing - noone "needs" to find a girlfriend. Mentality like that will just make you feel pressured and make you feel less at ease with yourself.
Coffee shops, the library, the mall, resteraunts, even a gas station are all places to meet cool people.

[Notorious0601]

Not to mention that if you have the mentality you "need" a gf, it will have a reverse effect and they'll all run away.

Go with the flow, and bam, you'll be hot stuff. The formula semi-works for me, I do attract chicks but I attract the taken ones like a uber-magnet. Good for a fling, a a side adventure, but no good for long-term, that's what they say.

[Himself™]

Not to mention that if you have the mentality you "need" a gf, it will have a reverse effect and they'll all run away.

Go with the flow, and bam, you'll be hot stuff. The formula semi-works for me, I do attract chicks but I attract the taken ones like a uber-magnet. Good for a fling, a a side adventure, but no good for long-term, that's what they say.

Would have to concur, I have no commitment, but that doesn't mean the meat stays dry or the balls blue...

[hightek505]

Not to mention that if you have the mentality you "need" a gf, it will have a reverse effect and they'll all run away.

if you have this mentality then you're automatically setting yourself up for failure. Having a NEED means that you are willing to take anything that you can get your hands on. Dating allows you to see what all is out there. Be glad you don't grow up in an Indian family where you are prearranged to marry some fugly when you're 2.

Have fun with the date. Use things around you to start conversation if you reach a awkward quiet time. Show interest in her. Who cares if she is dumber than a doorknob. If you show interest in her she will be happy.

One more thing. YOU HAVE TO BE CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF. You keep on talking like, "oh i'm a noob...blah blah blah". OK we get it you haven't been on a date before. Know what? EVERYONE has been at this stage in their life. Sometimes people start dating younger, and some older. I didn't really start dating until i was 21 (now 24). You need to have confidence in yourself. I'm not saying be the guy who thinks he knows everything and everyone else is inferior, but walk with your head high, hold yourself in a good presence and present yourself like you know what your doing (even if you don't) don't let fear show. Be yourself too. The last thing a girl wants is someone who puts on a facade and the girl likes that person then they find out who the real you is and they bolt.

have fun and good luck and remember, Don't be a loner, wrap your boner :p

[Notorious0601]

Well, my theory is not just a theory, it's based on my own hard experience. The harder I pursued a chick, the faster she'd run away. Going with the flow without worrying too much about finding a chick? Bam, look, it's raining chicks. Taken chicks, in my case, but that's a story for another day.